Holy Day

Today is the Birth of Baha’u’llah, an important Baha’i holy day. I’m always glad for these pauses in the calendar to reflect and step out of the busyness of regular life. Last night we all went to the holy day celebration, the first Baha’i event I’ve been to in a while. It was really good …

Bad mom?

(the post I wanted to write last night.) A friend called me Thursday morning with an important question: “Are we bad moms for working?” Or, more accurately and guiltily “We’re not bad moms for working, are we?” I don’t quite remember what I said in response, though I know I acknowledged that work is important …

Connections

Maybe you’re familiar with the research showing that mothers and babies who breastfeed and cosleep get into the same biorhythm patterns (I think the technical term is different – basically, the cycles in and out of REM sleep become synched). I’ve been noticing this for a while, but last night was a great example. Baby …

Home again

Baby and I spent the last week up at my parents’ home. Husband was out of town for work and it seemed like a good idea. He wouldn’t worry about me alone in the house, and I would have more help and eliminate my morning and evening drives with baby, one of my biggest sources …

Who I am

I went to a talk today at the university on story-telling and healing. I was expecting something uber-intellectual: any time the word “narrative” is used, things can tend to skew towards the unintelligible. In actuality, the presentation was a great example of getting real. The speaker was very down to earth. She let us connect …

Wow. Just wow.

Note: WordPress acted up yesterday and wouldn’t let me login. I wrote this post yesterday and emailed it to myself. Fortunately I can get back in this morning, so here it is from last night.************ Baby is amazing me today. First, she heads for the bathroom, confirming with a little waving fist that she has …