{"id":304,"date":"2012-04-14T21:35:13","date_gmt":"2012-04-14T21:35:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/2012-04-14-more-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems\/"},"modified":"2012-04-14T21:35:13","modified_gmt":"2012-04-14T21:35:13","slug":"2012-04-14-more-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/2012\/04\/14\/2012-04-14-more-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"More Simple Solutions to Stressful Problems"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cutting baby&#8217;s fingernails = I can&#8217;t do it.<br \/>\nFor the first year-ish, instead of cutting, I ripped them (really, there&#8217;s science behind that. They&#8217;re soft and easy to rip. No damage, and a softer edge than if you use clippers). Now that she&#8217;s older, she is highly resistant when awake (to ripping OR clipping) so I try when she&#8217;s asleep. However, the lights have to be on, so it has to be during naptime. That means weekends only. And sometimes her nap is entirely on my chest, or she&#8217;s in the stroller, or I forget, or it wakes her up, and basically,<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t\/don&#8217;t do it.<\/p>\n<p>Today I tried one of my sister&#8217;s tricks: I played a video on the computer while clipping them. Worked like magic! The video also rocked: <a title=\"Feist on Sesame Street\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=fZ9WiuJPnNA\">Feist on Sesame Street<\/a>. It rocks! The only problem: She wanted to watch it again. And again. And again. And it&#8217;s so catchy, whenever we broke into the song later in the day, she started &#8220;Unh, UNH!&#8221;ing and pointing back to the computer. Not really a problem compared to hazardous fingernails!<\/p>\n<p>Also: what to do if your house is a complete, absolute disaster?<\/p>\n<p>Solution: Go on a walk with baby while your husband cleans! Then go on a purging frenzy, this time with even more zeal than ever before. Things are going OUT of here! Our desks are neat, tasks are getting done: it&#8217;s like a new regime is in power. I love it.<\/p>\n<p>Finally: Quick tricks to get rid of stuff when you just can&#8217;t seem to let it go:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Break it (series of bowls and glasses)<\/li>\n<li>Lose it (two toques, baby&#8217;s little bird in the grocery store)<\/li>\n<li>Sell it (recouping $$ for it helps the pain of separation. Recently sold: old kitchen table)<\/li>\n<li>Talk on the phone while purging &#8211; you won&#8217;t notice what you&#8217;ve given away until it&#8217;s gone!<\/li>\n<li>Recycle it: baby&#8217;s drawings, cute glass jars, business cards you feel obligated to keep: our environment depends on your contributions, so let them fly<\/li>\n<li>Chuck it: Revel in the clear, empty spaces where moments before grungy sponges and scrubbies stood. It feels good. It is good.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You&#8217;re welcome.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cutting baby&#8217;s fingernails = I can&#8217;t do it. For the first year-ish, instead of cutting, I ripped them (really, there&#8217;s science behind that. They&#8217;re soft and easy to rip. No damage, and a softer edge than if you use clippers). Now that she&#8217;s older, she is highly resistant when awake (to ripping OR clipping) so [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,9],"tags":[22,70,218],"class_list":["post-304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-environment","category-relationships","tag-baby-care","tag-decluttering","tag-stress"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}