{"id":300,"date":"2012-04-13T01:34:16","date_gmt":"2012-04-13T01:34:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/2012-04-13-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems\/"},"modified":"2012-04-13T01:34:16","modified_gmt":"2012-04-13T01:34:16","slug":"2012-04-13-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/2012\/04\/13\/2012-04-13-simple-solutions-to-stressful-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"Simple solutions to stressful problems"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Those of you who read my postings (thank you for that!) may have noticed a certain stress in my tone lately. I know I&#8217;m feeling it. It&#8217;s not that my to do list is unmanageable; it&#8217;s that I haven&#8217;t even found the time to do a list so the to-dos are ricocheting around my head and (so it seems &#8211; I don&#8217;t have a list to check this) piling up.  Physical space: a mess. Body: needs more rest. Menus: in need of work.<br \/>\nAfter some basic reflection, I&#8217;ve come up with a few little things I can\/need to do to curb the mental and physical clutter that&#8217;s getting me down and free up more time to do important things like be with my family.<\/p>\n<p>1. Stop shopping. I keep trying to purge our possessions, but if I shop, we may never made headway on this. I&#8217;ve been enjoying second hand outings a lot, and have found some great toys for Alya &amp; clothes for myself. I still want some things to have a complete wardrobe; I still would love to have more and better toys for my girl. But shopping takes time, money and adds to the mess. For the next while: cut shopping and use what we have.<\/p>\n<p>2. Make a list before checking it twice. I need to do a mind dump on paper (kind of Getting Things Done-ish) and then process the list to come up with an orderly way to approach my current tasks. As it is, the list is disorganized and has too many non-essential items rather than real to-dos. I look at it at the end of the day and don&#8217;t know what to tackle, so I read blogs. With a full list, in order, broken down to single tasks, I can get somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>3. Stop multitasking. If I can. Maybe. We&#8217;ll see about this one, but I find baby-time more enjoyable if I&#8221;m focused.<\/p>\n<p>4. No more facebook. For real. I&#8217;ll try. Though I&#8217;m not yet ready to cancel my account.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s hoping that these simple solutions get me feeling closer to a manageable life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Those of you who read my postings (thank you for that!) may have noticed a certain stress in my tone lately. I know I&#8217;m feeling it. It&#8217;s not that my to do list is unmanageable; it&#8217;s that I haven&#8217;t even found the time to do a list so the to-dos are ricocheting around my head [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[205,218,226],"class_list":["post-300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-shopping","tag-stress","tag-time"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=300"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/300\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}