{"id":209,"date":"2012-01-04T23:11:52","date_gmt":"2012-01-04T23:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/2012-01-04-drumming-and-learning\/"},"modified":"2012-01-04T23:11:52","modified_gmt":"2012-01-04T23:11:52","slug":"2012-01-04-drumming-and-learning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/2012\/01\/04\/2012-01-04-drumming-and-learning\/","title":{"rendered":"Drumming and Learning"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>More drumming tonight. Working on 3 rhythms: yambu, guaguanco and vudo. I like them all. My brain and body are steadily remembering the beats from the past.<br \/>\nAnd sometimes, not remembering them very well. There were a couple of rhythms tonight that I just couldn&#8217;t get. At all. Drum teacher had to stop us to correct me a few times. <\/p>\n<p>And, I wasn&#8217;t disturbed at all. My confidence wasn&#8217;t shaken. I didn&#8217;t question my presence in the group. My emotions were mainly enthusiasm. Thoughts were: I know this, I&#8221;m just out of practice. I&#8217;ll just work on it a bit at home and get back in the flow next week. <\/p>\n<p>Being in a learning mode is great. For me with drumming tonight it came from doing something I&#8217;m confident at, being in a supportive and low-stakes environment, and engaging in this activity in order to get better, not to be perfect now. <\/p>\n<p>Being in a learning mode in a relationship for me means being excited by growth, accepting conflict or disagreement when it arises and actually embracing it as a source of growth, and being excited about the future as the relationship grows.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More drumming tonight. Working on 3 rhythms: yambu, guaguanco and vudo. I like them all. My brain and body are steadily remembering the beats from the past. And sometimes, not remembering them very well. There were a couple of rhythms tonight that I just couldn&#8217;t get. At all. Drum teacher had to stop us to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[75],"class_list":["post-209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-drumming-relationships-learning"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/209","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=209"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/209\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}