{"id":204,"date":"2011-12-30T21:45:52","date_gmt":"2011-12-30T21:45:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/2011-12-30-relationships-first\/"},"modified":"2011-12-30T21:45:52","modified_gmt":"2011-12-30T21:45:52","slug":"2011-12-30-relationships-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/2011\/12\/30\/2011-12-30-relationships-first\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships First"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today was much more enjoyable than yesterday. I think it&#8217;s because I decided to put relationships first, over getting things done. Sort of. Mainly my relationship with my daughter, for much of the day. In general.<br \/>\nwhat I mean is: today I saw that when I put energy into focusing on my daughter and having the right (positive, learning-focused, encouraging, nurturing) interactions with her, things went better. I enjoyed things more. I had more energy. She was happier. Time flew by instead of crawling, as I was afraid it would. Breakfast went well: I made cereal and she ate it, and when she threw her spoon repeatedly it was actually hilarious.<\/p>\n<p>Then we went on two walks, the first mainly to put her to sleep, the second to play in a park. And we played with the ducks and watched animals and walked and swung around in these swingy things.<\/p>\n<p>Also good today: wallet found! It was dropped in the night drop slot at the credit union. Minus the cash :). I am greatly amused at the moral reasoning that went into that decision, but appreciative nonetheless.<\/p>\n<p>Another bonus: thanks to my mom&#8217;s visit today I was able to finally make the ginger cookies I&#8217;ve been trying to make since early December. Yum!<\/p>\n<p>Plus did a tiny wee bit of purging and got rid of a small stack of old daybooks.<\/p>\n<p>So, though today was nap minimal, it gets two thumbs up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today was much more enjoyable than yesterday. I think it&#8217;s because I decided to put relationships first, over getting things done. Sort of. Mainly my relationship with my daughter, for much of the day. In general. what I mean is: today I saw that when I put energy into focusing on my daughter and having [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","category-self"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=204"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}