{"id":151,"date":"2011-11-09T22:18:21","date_gmt":"2011-11-09T22:18:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/2011-11-09-connections\/"},"modified":"2011-11-09T22:18:21","modified_gmt":"2011-11-09T22:18:21","slug":"2011-11-09-connections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/2011\/11\/09\/2011-11-09-connections\/","title":{"rendered":"Connections"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you&#8217;re familiar with the research showing that mothers and babies who breastfeed and cosleep get into the same biorhythm patterns (I think the technical term is different &#8211; basically, the cycles in and out of REM sleep become synched). I&#8217;ve been noticing this for a while, but last night was a great example.<br \/>\nBaby slept for a 4+ hour stretch &#8211; completely delightful for me! I woke up, still early morning, feeling refreshed though still tired. I looked over at baby who was solidly asleep and got excited to think that I could just slip back into sleep for another stretch.<\/p>\n<p>But no: within moments, baby started to stir, then let out her &#8220;I&#8217;m awake, I&#8217;m here, where&#8217;s my boob?&#8221; cry. As I rolled over to fulfill my part in this activity I realized how great it is to be connected like this with my baby.<\/p>\n<p>Husband and I have connections, too, around taking care of things around the house and baby and each other. Bedtime routine is one good example. Usually: husband will look after baby while I get the bedroom ready and often shower. He&#8217;ll bring her in to shower with me or for a bath. After the bath he usually gets her out, then we oil her up and wrestle her into a diaper and PJs together. Once she&#8217;s calm and ready for bed, I nurse while husband gets a bottle ready. Then I continue with the nursing\/feeding\/soothing routine while he cleans up the kitchen. I usually leave the bedroom to a clean kitchen, a hot mug of tea and encouragement to write my blog and then head to bed.<\/p>\n<p>And now, baby wants breast. I have to go.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you&#8217;re familiar with the research showing that mothers and babies who breastfeed and cosleep get into the same biorhythm patterns (I think the technical term is different &#8211; basically, the cycles in and out of REM sleep become synched). I&#8217;ve been noticing this for a while, but last night was a great example. Baby [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamillamilligan.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}